The spoon (or scoop) position is the most popular side position in sex. According to scientists, “spooning” prolongs intimacy, the nature of genital interaction allows lovers to have sex for a long time.
The spoon position ensures deep penetration of the penis and a long retention period of sperm in the woman.
The placement is very relaxed and comfortable. Penetration can be anal or vaginal. The position is suitable for couples who have a difference in height or weight.
Sex in this position is very romantic. It is preferred in the morning, after waking up, or in a cosy embrace by the burning fireplace, when you are completely relaxed and have no desire to exert yourself or rush anywhere. The man snuggles tightly against his partner’s back and the woman lifts her leg to help him in.
Some girls are so turned on by sex in the back position, and the relaxed environment, that they can reach orgasm without additional stimulation.
Teaspoon position and pregnancy
In this position, the partner can penetrate deeply and semen can be more easily retained in the female genital tract. On the other hand, it is a comfortable sexual position for pregnant women, especially in the later stages of pregnancy, as it does not put pressure on the abdomen and is very comfortable for both woman and man.
How to adopt the ‘spoon pose’
The pose is also known as the English spoon (tea spoons). The name “teaspoons” comes from the positioning of the lovers’ bodies during penetration.
The partners lie close to each other with their legs extended or slightly bent at the knees. The woman has her back turned to the man, who presses against her body and does penetration depending on preference – vaginal or anal. To maintain the right angle of penetration, the man can support his partner’s thigh.
Although the man is the dominant party in this position, the woman can enhance the sensation with pelvic movements.
This position is one of the best positions for G-spot stimulation. Partners can additionally caress each other with their hands. The man in this position has access to his chest, back, neck, buttocks and clitoris. The woman has the possibility of self-stimulation, masturbation.
Other variations of the “spoon” position
Sexologists recommend a slightly different position, the “doggy pose”. The woman lies on her stomach, her partner lies on top and controls all the movements himself. The woman simply lies with her legs stretched down, slightly wiggling her partner, tensing her vaginal muscles for a tighter coitus.
Another “long-lasting” position, according to sexologists, is “face-to-face”. Both partners lie on their sides facing each other, and the woman puts her upper leg on the man’s torso. Or she first spreads her legs a little so that he can get inside and then slides them again, this position creates pressure on the clitoris.
It’s not very comfortable to move around in, try circular movements, side to side, experiment.
Another variation is the Serving Spoon. The man lies on his back with his legs slightly bent. The woman comes down on top, with her back to him. After the man has entered, she is advised to put her legs together to spice things up.
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Another option is the “spoon-doggy”, or “spoon-doggy”, or fetal position. The position gives the deepest possible penetration and full control of the pace and power to the man.
The partner lies on her side with her knees tucked in, opening her bottom as much as possible. To help the man enter, you can lift your leg slightly.
Advantages
This position makes it easier for a man to hold back ejaculation and prolong intercourse. It does not require much physical preparation and does not tire both partners.
The spoon position is sometimes called the position for lazy people, in which it becomes possible to increase the duration of intercourse.
The position is suitable if you do not want any extreme work in bed, and therefore it is indicated both in the morning after waking up and after a busy day. This kind of sexual act relaxes both parties. This pose is the perfect start or end to lovemaking. The sensation of heat and balanced breathing is one of the most associated with emotional intimacy.
A definite plus is this pose for a woman because the man does not smother her with his body weight. It is also a great solution for overweight and elderly people because this position does not strain the muscles.
The advantage of “teaspoons” is that there is no height difference between the lovers.
It is the best position for sex in conditions that require discretion and silence.
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Disadvantages
This position is not recommended if the man has a very large penis and can cause the woman pain and discomfort. During intercourse, the penis may slip out of the vagina.
The position of the teaspoons can easily be changed and adapted to one’s own needs. Here is one of its variants: the lovers lie on their sides, after the beginning of penetration the woman with her outside leg moves the man over her thigh and wraps it around, which ensures even deeper penetration.
Sleep
Teaspoons are not only a good position for sex, but also a comfortable position to cuddle or sleep in. Researchers have found that sleeping in this position symbolises the intimacy and affection of the partners. One partner embraces the other as if he or she wants to protect and keep him or her safe.
